Aynsli + Co

View Original

Beat Camera Anxiety with These 3 Powerful Mindset Shifts

There is nothing that can get me to procrastinate faster than the thought of appearing on camera.

Seriously, I’ll start mentally making a list of website tweaks that I need to make (that aren’t really even needed), I’ll do some dishes, maybe gather laundry. Anything to avoid getting on camera.

I thought it was just me but there are a ton of brilliant people out in this great world that struggle with it too.

But here’s the good news …

On-camera confidence is a skill you can develop.

And while having your external environment ready and prepared can do wonders for your feelings of readiness when you get on camera, most of our hesitancy comes from within.

So, today, we’re going to look at three mindset shifts that will help you move from camera shy to camera savvy.

These are practical, actionable strategies that you can start using today.

 

But before we get to the steps, let’s explore why we experience discomfort when we talk about getting in front of the camera.

Understanding camera shyness

Why do so many of us feel a twinge of panic at the thought of being on camera?

It’s not just about fear of forgetting the script or tripping over your words – it’s deeper than that.

Camera shyness stems from a fear of vulnerability.

Being on camera means exposing yourself to an audience and opening up for real-time judgment and critique. Whether it’s a live webinar, a Zoom coaching session or even a casual Instagram reel, the camera can act as an unforgiving audience that seems to magnify every minor flaw.

Many people also worry about their appearance – how they look, sound and whether they come across as knowledgeable and confident. The camera can be a perfect platform for imposter syndrome to rear its head.

Recognizing the roots of your camera shyness is your first step toward overcoming it.

Reflect on what specifically makes you nervous about being on camera.

  • Is it the fear of not looking professional enough?

  • Are you anxious about not sounding articulate?

  • Or perhaps it’s the pressure to perform flawlessly in one take?

Identifying these triggers can help you address them more effectively.

Remember, you’re not alone in feeling this way. Even the most seasoned speakers admit to feeling butterflies before going on stage or facing a camera. It’s a universal challenge that affects almost everyone.

It’s time to accept that this isn’t a personal failing. It’s simply a common hurdle – one that you can overcome with practice and the right mindset.

So let’s look into three mindset shifts you can start using immediately to help you overcome your camera shyness.

Mindset Shift #1

Shifting from perfection to progress

One of the biggest traps that can zap your on-camera confidence is the pursuit of perfection.

When you fixate on delivering a perfect performance, every minor mistake feels magnified, increasing your anxiety and filling you with a sense of frustration and dread.

We need to shift our thinking on perfection. We need to understand that this isn’t about being perfect but rather an opportunity for progress.

Start embracing imperfection as an essential part of the learning process.

Here are some practical ways you can apply this mindset shift:

  1. Celebrate small victories – After recording, instead of focusing on every little error, acknowledge what you did well. Maybe you explained a concept clearly or your energy level was just right. Recognizing these wins builds confidence.

  2. Set learning goals, not performance goals – For each video, set a personal learning objective, like improving your pace or using gestures more effectively. The focus on incremental learning diminishes the pressure of having to be perfect.

  3. Reflect and act – After each recording, spend a few minutes reflecting on what you could improve. This is not an invitation to criticize your performance. It’s about improvement. Pick one thing you can do better next time and make a small plan to implement it the next time you record. Focusing on incremental, continual improvement turns daunting tasks into manageable pieces.

Remember, your audience isn’t looking for a flawless robot. People resonate more with those who are genuine and relatable, not perfect.

Mindset Shift #2

Shifting from fear of judgment to valuing authentic connection

It’s natural to fear judgment.

After all, when you’re on camera, it feels like every eye is critiquing your every move.

This fear can be paralyzing, leading you to over-script or over-act your presentations, or stiffen up and lose the natural flow of your presentation.

To overcome this, shift your focus from fearing how you’ll be judged to prioritizing the connection you want to establish with your audience.  

Think about why you’re on camera in the first place, whether it’s to share something valuable, to educate, inspire or entertain. Your audience is there because they believe you have something worthwhile to share. They’re rooting for you to succeed, not waiting for you to slip up.

Here are some practical ways to focus on this mindset shift:

  1. Focus on your message, not on yourself – Center your thoughts around the value of what you are sharing. When you concentrate on the importance of your message, your fear takes a backseat. This helps reduce self-consciousness and boosts your authentic presence.

  2. Engage with your audience – Imagine speaking to a friend, not an anonymous crowd. Ask questions, encourage feedback and respond to comments when possible. This interaction creates a dialogue, making the experience more like a conversation and less like a performance.

  3. Be yourself – Sincerity resonates more than perfection. Be genuine and share personal stories or insights that relate to your topic. When you are being genuine, people feel a connection to you, which diminishes the impact of judgment and increases audience engagement.

  4. Practice vulnerability – Allow yourself to be seen, quirks and all. Vulnerability is powerful. It humanizes you and makes your audience feel closer to you. It’s okay to acknowledge if you’re nervous or if something is new to you. This honesty can endear you to your viewers and actually enhance their trust in your expertise.

By valuing authentic and genuine connection over the fear of judgment, you’ll start to see the camera not as a critical troll but as a means of reaching people’s hearts and minds. This approach not only improves your confidence but also makes your on-camera interactions more fulfilling and impactful.

Mindset Shift #3

Moving from imposter syndrome to owning your expertise

Imposter syndrome is real and the camera seems to have the ability to bring it out even to the best of us.

Imposter syndrome is that nagging feeling that despite your achievements, you’re not truly qualified and everyone will think you’re a fraud.

In fact, imposter syndrome is especially prevalent among high achievers, particularly women and other underrepresented populations, such as persons of color or members of the LBGTQ+ community.

So, know that you are not alone in the feelings.

But there are steps you can take to help overcome these feelings. 

  1. Document your knowledge and successes – Start by listing your qualifications, experiences and the successes you’ve had. This list is a tangible reminder of your expertise and a powerful tool to combat feelings of inadequacy. Refer to this when you notice those doubts starting to creep back in.

  2. Teach what you know – One of the best ways to affirm your expertise is to teach others. Create content that showcases your knowledge and helps your audience. Teaching not only reinforces your own understanding but also demonstrates your expertise to others, boosting both your confidence and credibility.

  3. Seek feedback and constructive criticism – Engage with peers and mentors who can provide constructive feedback. Positive reinforcement from respected colleagues can boost your self-esteem, while constructive criticism can be used as a roadmap for personal and professional development.

  4. Regularly update your skills – Staying up to date with the latest developments in your niche helps mitigate imposter feelings. Continuous learning shows commitment to your profession and ensures that your expertise remains relevant.

  5. Share personal stories of challenges and growth – Don’t shy away from sharing your own challenges and how you’ve overcome them. This not only makes you more relatable but also highlights your journey and growth, reinforcing your position as an expert.

By focusing on these actions, you can shift from feeling like an imposter to confidently owning your expertise.

This mindset not only develops your on-camera presence but also empowers you to engage more effectively with your audience.

The Importance of Reframing Negative Thoughts

Negative thoughts can be a major roadblock to confidence, particularly when stepping in front of the camera.

These thoughts often manifest as harsh critiques of our performance, appearance or knowledge.

However, by learning to reframe these thoughts, you can significantly reduce their impact and boost your on-camera confidence.

Reframing negative thoughts involves shifting your perspective on the thoughts that undermine your confidence and turning them into opportunities for growth and positivity.

 

Here are some practical actions you can take to start reframing negative thoughts:

  1. Recognize and acknowledge – The first step is to become aware of the negative thoughts when they arise. Instead of trying to ignore them, acknowledge their presence. This recognition is critical because you can’t change what you don’t acknowledge.

  2. Challenge the thoughts – Once you’ve recognized a negative thought, challenge its validity. Ask yourself questions like “Is this based on facts or assumptions?” and “Is there evidence to support this, or can I find evidence against it?” Often, these negative thoughts are based more on fear than reality.

  3. Replace with positive affirmations – After challenging your negative thoughts, replace them with positive affirmations that reinforce your strengths and abilities. For example, change “I’m going to mess this up” to I’m prepared and ready to share my knowledge.” Affirmations should be realistic, positive and in the present tense.

  4. Visualize success – Imagine yourself succeeding in your on-camera efforts. Visualization is a powerful tool for building confidence. See yourself delivering your content flawlessly, engaging with your audience and feeling satisfied and happy with your performance. This mental rehearsal can boost your confidence significantly.

  5. Practice gratitude – Shift your focus from what could go wrong to what is already going well. Practicing gratitude can help alter your mindset from one of scarcity and fear to one of abundance and appreciation.

  6. Seek constructive feedback – Sometimes, negative thoughts stem form feeling isolated in our endeavors. Seek feedback from trusted colleagues or mentors. This feedback can provide you with a fresh perspective, reinforcing positive aspects and offering constructive ways to improve.

Through reframing, you can transform negative thoughts into a source of strength and motivation.

This shift is essential not just for improving on-camera confidence but for fostering a more positive and resilient mindset in all areas of your life.

 

Stepping in front of the camera can be daunting, but it’s important to remember that on-camera confidence is a skill that can be developed through practice and the right mindset shifts.

By understanding the roots of camera shyness, embracing imperfection, focusing on authentic connections, owning your expertise and reframing negative thoughts, you are equipping yourself with powerful tools to not only improve your on-camera presence but also enhance your overall communication skills.

This isn’t just about overcoming fear; it’s about embracing the opportunity to make a genuine impact through your words and presence.

Also remember, the journey to becoming confident on camera doesn’t happen overnight. It requires patience, persistence and a willingness to step out of your comfort zone.

So, next time you get ready to jump on camera, practice these mindset shifts. Your audience is waiting to hear what you have to offer. They don’t expect perfection – they’re looking for real, relatable content that resonates with them.

 

And if you want more tangible tips to boost your on-camera confidence, download your FREE Content Creation Kit.

YOU’LL ALSO LOVE …